Whose Fault When Girls Turn Out To Be Bad Wives And Become The Bitter Old Witches?

The cycle continues, girls turn to be women too weak, feeble and frustrated to just grow and end up being just Mrs without plans and aspirations.

I always asked questions and found answers just maybe cause I was too curious and inquisitive to know more about life.

I grew up with my parents and the best thing my mom did was to tell me things, topics and strange topics (yes, i say strange cause that is what the society made it look.) Mom, Will tell me anything and everything even the unsolicited advice, let’s just say she was my first sex coach and counsellor on matters of relationship, self confidence and sexuality.

She taught me to be pragmatic and It was not a surprise that my friends in college confided in me because i was replicating the lessons from my moms to my friends that didn’t know jack about topics like this and no one was willing to share stories.

There is a lot of stories why i chose this part of women empowerment. In 2014, in my job as an executive assistant i was still doubling as the school’s teens counsellor (besides, i gave myself  that job title)  and the daily questions and advice i get on my desk were huge and i could not sleep well for months until i drafted a luncheon in 2015  women mentoring girls (A safe place to share your unique story to the younger you with encouragement and more).

It was supposed to be every term in schools, get volunteers as girls mentor.

my point is when we don’t speak the truth to our  ‘mini us’, the circle continues of bitter grown women, women who get married without being wives, some only say yes i do, only because they were pressured.

Today, i call you out,  if you are reading this, become a teen mentor or better still invite all the teens in your life to join my mentoring girls school


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The Reason You Both Want Another!

Lack of creativity in your sex room might just bring about boredom and craving another which can be from the man or the woman. sex is serious business hence the need to constantly recreate a fun environment and atmosphere for love and quantum sex.


1: I like to recreate my sanctuary and shrine with regular repainting of the room, new sheets by weekly, rearrange the room always to spark imaginations and thoughts. In one of the years, I experienced an intense surge of high libido. Guess what? I repainted the house at intervals throughout the year cause I wanted to constantly ignite the fire inside and most times I craved newness and this is peculiar to everyone at some point. Have you had the same colour in your bedroom since you said I DO? maybe its time to spice the sanctuary.

2: Set yourselves up for connection and communication by knowing more of your intentions, sealing your intimacy level, communicating your needs, wants and desires. Decide to always create the right environment for a healthy conversation that stimulates your mind and soul, the bitter truth is marriage and sex can be boring and you unconsciously think of the dreadful cheating!!. which should not be but with your effort of recreating a deeper connection and energy exchange with your spouse it might erase such thoughts.

3: Try out new activities in the bedroom which ultimately bring fresh thoughts with lasting memories. ever wondered why you want to buy another black bag or another colour of an item you already have? I assume, out of boredom and having to repeat the same bag to work or event, but you get a new collection to your wardrobe and all you desire is carrying that bag and feeling stylish and happy with yourself. The same happens with sex when you try new activities or styles that just leave you both elated and that surge of unexplainable excitement envelopes you.

Meanwhile, during this time the world is experiencing a standstill due to covid19, I put up a short guide that will aid your sex tank this season. get it ……

Enjoy the season…….



The need to reach out to wives garnished with a kind reminder that sex was NOT made for submission but sweetness of two people being one. The essence of SEX is for communinion, connection,communication,commitment and not just procreation.

looling forward to reading a direct and explicit thoughts on sexuality in its realest state. get it now.